October 4, 2013 --
Thoughts from Me and Others
"You'll be with me, like a handprint on my heart"
In
celebration of my incredible, unique Joshua Boy, who died 8 years ago on
October 4, 2013, and
in appreciation for his amazing and loving siblings - Jeremy, Jamie, Jacob and
Janson - and all the joy and love they brought into his life, and for wonderful
family and friends who brought even more joy, acceptance and love. I love the words of the song "For
Good" and all it means to us and Joshua's life. The loss of Joshua in this life is deep and sorrowful. I miss him more than words can express. I am always thankful to be called "Where's Selma" and to be his Mom!
"I've
heard it said that people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing
something we must learn
And
we are led
To
those who help us most to grow - if we let them.
And
we help them in return ...
But
because I knew you
I
have been changed for good
It
well may be that we will never meet again in this lifetime
So
let me say before we part
So
much of me, is made from what I learned from you
You'll
be with me
Like
a handprint on my heart..."
Comments from others on this special day of remembrance:
Sending high fives your way!!
What sweet memories of such a wonderful spirit! Barney, wheel of fortune, "where's Selma?", and high fives make me smile!
Hugs, handshakes and high fives! An of course lots of love!
Love that boy and you- forever and always!
I say it every year, I miss objects coming over my fence! And every time u look at the hole in our basketball standard I think if him filling it with rocks! Blessed to have had him in our lives!! High Fives for Joshua!!
This was just a few days before we welcomed our #3 fully into this mortal existence. I remember the smiles and the joy he brought for all who met him. You have a great family and will always remember the light you continue to be to all around you. Hugs!
Where's Selma? Right there!!!! He was always right... You were always right there Selma!!! Loved him and think about him all the time!
How sweet Selma. He absolutely left an impression on you and the rest of his wonderful family. God be with him till we meet again. God bless you too Selma.
Thinking of you Selma and your family. Love you!
Love you and love him! Thanks for sharing him with us!
His handprint will always be on your heart and everyone who knew him. I can't believe it has been 8 years. Love to you and your family.
What a beautiful tribute to your son! Love and blessings to you and your family.......
Miss that boy!
I remember that day well and how strong you were...I can't believe it has been eight years. We miss you and your family and Josh over in our neighborhood.
I am blessed to have known him and get kisses blown my way! Love you too sweet Selma :)
Selma - such a beautiful and touching tribute to not only your son, but for others that were touched by his blessed life.
Loved him! In the short times I saw him he brought so much joy! Such a beautiful person!
"Where's Selma" - - I love you my dear friend!
Selma ~ You are an incredible Mother, Sister, Friend, etc. Joshua was and is so blessed to have you and your other sweet kids. I'm blessed to be your Sister and Joshua's Aunt. He always made me smile. I miss him. I'll celebrate after work by eating his favorite McDonald's meal. :)
Selma, I'm sorry for your loss and the pain of remembering your son. He always looks so happy in the photos that you post. For the short time he was with you he was loved and well taken care of. Children are not supposed to die...Parents expect to see their children grow and mature. Ultimately, parents expect to die and leave their children behind...This is the natural course of life events, the life cycle continuing as it should. The loss of a special-needs child is the loss of innocence, the death of the most vulnerable and dependent. The death of a child signifies the loss of the future, of hopes and dreams, of new strength, and of perfection. Take care and God bless.
Selma You have shared such beautiful memories with us! God Bless your family.
Can't believe it's been 8 years. "wa wa what happened?" I still sometimes say some of his great "one liners" and it always brings a smile and a laugh when I think of him and the things he said. Hope you're doing well. xo
Love him always! He taught me things in the way only he could! Sending hugs your way today Selma!
I love your family and all the blessings we have shared with one anther. Paul and I are greatful for the time we all were neighbors . I love you
I remember this day like it was yesterday, do glad we can remember and honor Joshua. There's gonna be a lot of McDonalds fries on the road today!
The memories of Joshua will never fad.
This is so beautiful Selma!
Ah I miss that guy! If it weren't for him and you I would not be who I am today. I love you all so much!!
Wher iz he?
Lisa Connolly
Wish I would have known him!! Thanks for writing about him and letting us get to know him! You are an amazing mom!
An angel set to help us all understand love and compassion, thanks for reminding us.
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